As you move forward in your newlywed life, sex problems will unquestionably occur. It is based not only on your physical capabilities, but more on your mental. Stress, everyday routine, small fights and quarrels, crying children, troubles at work and more will add up and effect your ability to perform in bed. Women might start smiling now, thinking that it is mainly man's problem of getting it up and working it out. No! If man needs to get it up, woman needs to keep it up. Woman is more conscious about sex. She is more sensitive about her body. She knows if it is not worth it she won't get into it. How many times did you use or did you hear "I have a headache" excuse"?No stop and think why?

There is nothing in the world more enjoyable than sex. It is both your fault as newlyweds that sex became a routine uninteresting job one would want to escape from. There is nothing to worry about yet. It is interesting to mention that because of not having sex people choose other options: watch porn and masturbate, cheat or getting divorced. And those are different topics that we will talk about later. But coming back to our conversation - what do you need to do! Don't have sex if you don't want to, this would be the worst plan.

First try to relax and take a breath. Your body might ache, take a shower (water has a unique ability to relax) think about something warm from your relationship even though your day was a complete hell. Think about great sex you had when you were dating. Something warm or horny involving your spouse to get you in the mood.

"All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better" Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Once you are there and you are ready to experiment: put aside your old "routine" and begin from the scratch. Find a way to please your partner differently by switching positions and trying to find as many positions as you can; then pick and choose the ones which you have never experienced before. The eagerness to see how it will turn out must ignite the spark of intense sexual desire. That is exactly how you can find new ultimate positions for you and your spouse and reinvent your sexual life. Solution is to try and work it out in order to have a fulfilled healthy newlywed life.

Some sexual positions guides:

http://www.menshealth.com/sexpositionmaster/

http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/better-sex-positions